Can anyone give me some advice please

i grew up in a home where my brother supported Chelsea fc .  i can still see the pictures of  peter osgood  john hollins etc   and his God

ray wilkins,  i wont say who i support  for fear yee wont help me with my question , but it was not Chelsea.    NOW To make matters worse

my only son supports who other than Chelsea fc and his room has  drogba, lampard , cech, terry , etc etc  and his  new God  Torres , i dont know what ive done in my past life to deserve this ?  now all is ok until i make a promise  to my son at my brothers wedding , a few years ago  that when he is 12 im going to bring him to see chelsea in stamford bridge . [ I Had a few to many that day ]   and now that day has come  and he remembered  that  promise , SO WERE ON OUR WAY TO SEE CHELSEA AT HOME TO Sunderland on 14 th of jan 2012 Leaving ireland on friday 13th  coming home saturday / sunday ,  all yet to be finalised ,

  so if anyone could help me with this please  where  is a good seat for a 12 year old to see the game ?,  is there  violence at this fixture?

 is  stamford bridge open Friday /Sunday  for tour etc ?, where is a good place to go before and after the match ?, keeping in mind he is a12 year old ,  and any other ideas for to make it special ,  if anyone could help please  im hopeing to make it a trip he will remember forever , as for ME

I  Should learn to keep my big Mouth shut

thanks

fran